From Defeat to Desire to Decision
Conflict with your children can lead to feelings of not being a good enough mother. A breakdown in relationships might lead to feeling unworthy. The plans you have for your life go off script and leaves you questioning "Why?". Feeling DEFEATED? I would offer that getting all the way to the bottom of those feelings of DEFEATISM could lead you to creating a DESIRE for something better, then making the DECISON to create that change.